Lil

Your warmest lead is someone you forgot you knew.

Lil is an agent for your relationships. Every week, on a day you pick, this personal AI finds the people going quiet on you and writes your way back in.

Free to start. Invite-only beta for now.

You’ve spent years building relationships that could move your business forward. They go quiet on their own, because keeping up with everyone is impossible. The work you put in shouldn’t go cold. Now it doesn’t have to.

How it works

STEP 01

Connect once.

Link your Gmail and calendar. Lil sees who you talk to and when.

ReadsFrom, To, Date
ReadsWho you meet, when
LearnsWho you talk to most
LearnsWho’s gone quiet
Never seesSubject lines, message bodies, attachments, event titles or locations
STEP 02

A few, every week.

Lilfinds a few people you’ve lost touch with. Someone you used to email often. Someone you haven’t emailed in a year. Each one comes with a reason, and we’ll even write the first message for you.

Why this pick
A dozen threads last year, quiet since
Opener
Hey Sarah, it’s been a minute. How’s everything?
STEP 03

You send it.

Send the first message from your own inbox. Mark it done, and Lil learns who you actually reach out to, and gets sharper for it.

One sent. More next week.

Built for people whose work is their network.

Agency owners, fractional execs, recruiters, founders, consultants, coaches. The kind of work where one good reconnect can pay for the year.

  • AgenciesA past client you haven’t emailed in a year.
  • RecruitersSomeone you placed, quiet ever since.
  • FoundersAn investor you owe an update.
  • FractionalsAn exec who hired you, long out of touch.
  • ConsultantsA sponsor you’ve lost touch with.
  • CoachesSomeone you used to coach, gone quiet.

What Lil reads

This is the line Lil’ will not cross. Read-only. Who you talk to and when, nothing more. No subject lines, no messages, no event titles. Disconnect from Settings whenever you want.

Read the full privacy policy
What Lil’ reads
Gmail
From, To, and Date headers. Just who you emailed and when.
Calendar
Who you met with, and when.
Never
Subject lines, messages, attachments, event titles, locations.
Both read-only. Disconnect anytime from Settings.

An agent that does the remembering for you.

Every personal CRM asks you to keep it alive. Lil just runs.

A CRM you maintain
  • You tag and file every contact
  • You log notes after every call
  • You set your own reminders
  • It only works if you keep it up
Lil
  • Reads who you talk to on its own
  • Brings the right people to your inbox
  • Writes the first message for you
  • Shows up every week, no upkeep

Start free. Upgrade for the full year.

Free
$0
  • Three picks every week, your last 90 days
  • One on-demand digest, anytime
Paid
$9/mo or $90/yr
  • A full year of history
  • Five on-demand digests a week

In invite-only beta. We’re letting people in a few at a time.

Questions.

What is Lil'?
Lil' is a personal agent for your relationships. It connects to your Gmail and calendar, finds the people you've lost touch with, and emails you a few to reach back out to every week, on the day you pick, with the first message already written.
How is it different from a personal CRM like Dex or Monica?
Most personal CRMs ask you to maintain them: tag contacts, log notes, set reminders. Lil' does the opposite. There is nothing to maintain. It reads who you talk to on its own, brings the right people to your inbox, and gets better the more you use it.
Does Lil' read my emails?
No. Lil' reads who you email and meet with, and when. Never your subject lines, never your messages, never your attachments. It is read-only, and you can disconnect anytime.
Who is Lil' for?
People whose work runs on relationships: consultants, recruiters, fractional execs, agency owners, founders, and coaches. Anyone who loses real work when a good contact goes quiet.
How much does it cost?
Lil' has a free plan and a paid one. Free brings you three picks every week from your last 90 days, plus one on-demand digest whenever you want it. Paid is $9 a month or $90 a year: it gives you a full year of history and five on-demand digests a week. It's in invite-only beta right now, so add your email and we'll save you a spot.
Kurt Schmidt, author of The Little Book of Networking
From the author of The Little Book of Networking

A best-selling networking book, now automated.

The Little Book of Networking, Kurt Schmidt’s Amazon best seller, lays out one simple system: keep your network warm on a steady rhythm, before relationships go cold. Lil runs that system for you, every week, on its own.

The book on Amazon

There’s someone in your inbox you forgot you knew.

Still in invite-only beta. Drop your email and we’ll save you a spot.

Free to start. Invite-only beta for now.