What Lil’ reads
Connecting Gmail is the part people stop and think about, so here’s the whole answer before you get to Google’s screen.
The two things Google will ask
Google shows you these two permissions in its own words. This is the exact text you’ll see.
“View your email message metadata such as labels and headers, but not the email body.”
Who a message was between, and when it was sent. Google will not hand over the body of the message to Lil’, and that limit is enforced by Google rather than promised by Lil’.
“View events on all your calendars.”
Who was on a meeting, and when it happened.
The line that matters
Read Google’s first permission again. It ends with “but not the email body.”
Lil’ asked Google for a permission that cannot return message bodies. The scope is called gmail.metadata, it returns headers and labels, and the body of the email is not in the response. The Subject header can ride along with From, To, and Date. Subject lines turn on when Gmail is connected, and you can turn them off in Settings.
What Lil’ does with it
Who wrote last, how often you talked, and how long it’s been is enough to tell who’s going quiet.
- How long it has been since the two of you exchanged anything
- Whether you used to talk often and then stopped
- Who wrote last, and whether anyone replied
- Whether you met on a calendar invite
Picks start from those facts. When Lil’ says why now, the reason comes from them.
Subject lines
Subject lines help Lil’ spot conversations that may connect to a goal you set. This is on when Gmail is connected and can be turned off in Settings. Lil’ may use up to six months of subject lines as supporting evidence, and you confirm what they mean.
What Lil’ never sees
- Message bodies
- Attachments
- What any meeting was about
Lil’ never writes an opener that pretends to know what a thread was about.
Turning it off
Disconnect inside Lil’ at any time, in Settings.
You can also revoke access directly from your Google account, without asking Lil’ first. Google keeps that control at myaccount.google.com/permissions.
Deleting your Lil’ account removes the relationship data Lil’ built. The account deletion flow explains what goes and gives you seven days to change your mind.
Verified by Google
Google reviewed Lil’ for both permissions and approved it in July 2026. There is no unverified-app warning on the consent screen.
Now Lil’ goes to work.
The people you’ve lost touch with start coming back, a few every week, with a first line ready to send.
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The legal version, including retention periods and the service providers involved, is on the privacy policy.